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Tips On Budgeting for the Single Mom

Divorce does a pretty good job of turning your life upside down. Budgeting money is something that suddenly becomes very important, and a newly single mom may not have much experience in that arena. To successfully manage a household and meet the financial needs of children involved, setting up a budget and learning tips on budgeting is vital for the recently single mom.

After a divorce, most single moms will find that their income has drastically decreased while their expenses have increased. Girls, you may not have gotten the chance to flex your accounting muscles during your marriage, but now you'll get your chance. The great thing is, you’re the one in control. You can spend your money according to your own priorities now!

Figure Out Where Your Money Goes

A budget is a plan, covering all your expenses and money coming in over a month's time. By putting this information down on paper, a single mom can get a clear idea of the monthly bills and expenses needed to maintain the household. Using tips on budgeting can also help aid in adjusting your living situation and keep you from getting into debt.

A budget should include a list of all your expenses. Gather credit card statements, receipts, bank statements and any other forms showing where you spend your money. For a single mom budgeting money for the first time, you might not have all of this information handy. Taking notes and tracking all of your expenses for a month might be necessary to create a more accurate budget. I know, it sounds like a pain, but it's just one month. When you set up your budget, don't forget to put some money in a savings account each week. Start small if you have to. $10 a week isn't much, but it will add up. Most importantly, you'll get yourself into the habit of saving. As a single mom, this will give you a cushion in case of an emergency or will help save up towards major household purchases or a family vacation.

Now, Tell Your Money Where to Go

Grouping expenses into categories will help identify them and their level of importance. These categories should include housing, kids, and food to name a few. Household based expenses you should be budgeting first are mortgage or rent and utilities. Always pay these first. Expenses for you and your child include clothing, school supplies, groceries, medical bills, daycare, car payments and insurance. You might prefer to list expenses for your child separately if you and your ex have arranged to split costs on expenses such as daycare or medical bills.

Split costs up into fixed costs, which are those that cannot be cut, such as rent. Variable costs on the other hand, are the ones that give you the most flexibility as a single mom. Pay attention to these variable expenses, such as groceries, clothing and entertainment expenses to decide which can be cut back on. For example, you can fix dinner at home instead of taking the kids out for fast food.

You can keep track of your budget by just writing monthly expenses down in a notebook, but one of the best tips on budgeting I can give you is to use budgeting software. These programs make it easy to keep organized, and help you stay motivated. These programs offer pre-designed budgeting tools that help you budget faster and are useful for tracking trends in how you spend your money and totaling up these expenses.

Here Comes the Part Where You Thrive...

As a single mom, you can use a budget to teach your children about responsible money management. With your children's support, sticking to the budget will also be easier and you can even make it fun! Set goals for you and your children to meet and give rewards for meeting these goals. For example, successfully cutting back on expenses by five percent can allow you and your children to go out to a movie and dinner once a week.

Here are some general tips on budgeting that can help a single mom save money:

- Reconsider luxury entertainment items you own. Having a landline and cell phone may be an unnecessary expense. Stuff like a satellite and cable are extra expenses that can be cut back on by choosing a basic package or canceling all together. My girls and I survived for 2 years without cable - it can be done. You can also find free entertainment activities with your children such as going to the beach, going bike riding or attending free local concerts.

- A girl can save a lot of money on groceries. Instead of buying bottled water, buy a filter for your sink. Switch to generic or store brands, use coupons and become a member of the grocery reward programs to save money. Pack lunches for everyone instead of paying for meals out, eat leftovers more often and shop at discount and dollar stores.

- Save money by using tips on budgeting to arrange daycare swapping services with other single moms you know. You can also talk to relatives and friends about helping you out. Single moms can also contact the local social services to see if they can qualify for free or low cost childcare.

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